Time travels down a path, the twists and turns will not last, as some days the sadness just sets in, the loneliness the cries within. We find our ways, to brighter days and yet and yet and then, there is hope that the good times outweigh the sad, the happiness relieves the bad and we can see that all will be happy and well, going through the swell of ope – deborahmills© 2019
Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity. Carl Jung
Some days are just bad days, that’s all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness, and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day, that’s just the way it is – Dita Von Teese
Sadness comes. As quickly as the good times show up, the times of the sadness hits suddenly. Finding our way, struggling through the times, we look toward to the future, so that we can prepare for each moment in our lives. We prepare, we plan, we make sure we are knowing each step that will come, and yet, when a crisis comes, we feel the dark try to steal our hearts away. Feel the sadness for a moment, then look toward the sun, feel the cool breeze on our face, and smile. Know that this sadness will pass, we will find the answers. We will find the way to happiness with our dreams. Dream on, Dream big,, Dream
Animal totems: Leopard: There are some who say a leopard never changes his spots, but in reality, young cubs don’t have spots, and older leopards like people get grey and the spots start blending in together. Bro Leopard is fast, smart, a bit of a loner, but still strong in his own pride. His totem reminds us that all life changes, while his medicine shares with us that the healing only comes with change
Lady Moon is the New Dark Moon today. at 8:26 pm est. she remains in Virgo. During the New Dark moon, open up all doors to the future, and to the magick. Use the open ness of the emptiness of the dark moon to bring in all possibilities. Use sandalwood essential oil to open up the potential.
I am here my usual hours today. both morning and evening. May
the fairies dance around each of us today. Love ya, Me,Cherokee,
Frankiecapone,Sugar, Apache, Apollo, T .
The sense of pride when we do not hide, behind our fears we shed many tears, and yet we feel so very grand when we take a stand in small victories. A step, a jump perhaps a hop, we keep on going we do not stop, as we make our way, each and every day to small victories. Oh some days, yes, we may fall, we’ll stop in our tracks, but through it all, each step we take, each day we make another small victory – deborahmills © 2019
How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yours – Wayne Dyers
Take your victories, whatever they may be, cherish them, use them, but don’t settle for them. Mia Hamm
As a small toddler, we may crawl way past the time our parents expect to do crawl, preferring to not get past our fears to pull ourselves up, to walk upright as adults do every day. Yet soon, gingerly we take that first step, but boom back on our rump we land, yet we don’t stop. Day after day we keep going until we are walking with confidence and strength. As adults we are so used to instant everything that we forget to clap, say “atta boy” for small victories we make, our loved ones make, and we can know that soon this will be our everyday. Dream on, Dream Big ,Dream
Animal totems: blue Jay, – Bro Blue Jay is bossy, aggressive, and smart. He is one of the birds that knows how to use tools to get what he wants. Watching this totem we can see him taking a limb to run others off from the bird feeder. His totem reminds us to be gentle with others while trying to achieve our goals, while his medicine reminds us to keep trying.
Lady Moon is Waning crescent. She enters Sagittarius at 9:58 am est. use this to send good news messages to love interests, or to draw courage in love. Beets a root vegetable are often associated with healing of blood, giving good oxygen and energy to red blood cells. Red is a power color and so beets are considered a life blood of magick. Use beets in our new year meals to sustain our lives in prosperity. I am here until 11:30 today. Having worked Monday morning, I need to do some other business so will be here from now until 11:30 or so. May the fairies dance around each of us today. Loveya, Me, Cherokee, Frankiecapone, Sugar, Apache, Apollo, t
This past year has been something else… it’s opened my eyes to many things and many people. It’s had its ups and downs and ins and outs. And I believe we’ve all been able to take something from that and grow in our own imparticular ways. We’ve over come obstacles, and set in motion opportunities that can change our own individual lives. Kyle Schmid
Opportunities to find deeper powers within ourselves come when life seems most challenging. Joseph Campbell If someone offers you an amazing opportunity and you’re not sure you can do it, say yes- then learn how to do it later.” – Richard Branson
The crisis we are facing, the situation we are in right now is the very thing that will make us mad enough, tired enough to bring about the changes that we want in our lives. The conflicts arise to stir the pot, change the focus of complacency to let us know that we are moving forward. We are moving forward. Most times we feel we are standing still, or even backwards, but we never can go back to change things. We are consistently even sometimes at snails’ pace so we appear to be standing still, but guaranteed especially when we are ignoring the problems, just letting the chips fall where they may, that conflicts pop up, blow up, change the courses of our lives so that the fates, the destinies of our lives will come. Dreams are made of these, conflicts, thoughts, healings of the soul. Dreams will over come the obstacles to bring the opportunities.
Animal totems: Snail : Bro snail grows his own shell. His shell is his protection of his softness but allows him balance. His totem moves slowly, so he misses no opportunity for the right nutrition, the right things he needs to keep his shell and his body in balance. His totem reminds us that moving slowing into the dreams is as important as running fast. His medicine shares to protect our dreams from other’s naysayers
Lady Moon is Waning remains in Libra the Scales. And enters into 4 th quarter at 4:14 pm est. use Gallium to increase intelligence, to move toward dreams. It also helps decrease fear of the unknown. This metal ore helps to change the norm, open up new ideas, breaks any preconceptions or old ideas.
I am here my usual hours today. May the fairies dance around each of us today. love ya, Me Cherokee, Frankiecapone, Sugar, apache Apollo, t
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You better watch out You better not cry Better not pout I’m telling you why Santa Claus is coming to town He’s making a list and checking it twice Gonna find out Who’s naughty and nice Santa Claus is coming to town He sees you when you’re sleeping He knows when you’re awake He knows if you’ve been bad or good So be good for goodness sake! O! You better watch out! You better not cry Better not pout I’m telling you why Santa Claus is coming to town Santa Claus is coming to town -Haven Gillespie / J. Fred Coots
St Nicholas, was born in Turkey which at the time was ruled by Greece. He followed the teaching of the Christ, which was giving to the poor, so as he grew, around the time of the belief, he took secret gifts to the poor children of the town. Yet in the Puritanical time, the settlers believed we should give all year, and the magick of St Nicholas was put aside. Soon however, in the 1800s, Santa Claus rose back to become a major part of our holidays. Looking much like the Oak King of the Pagans, the ability to fly, the twitch of his nose, the combining of the magickal world of Pagans, and the beautiful faith of the Christians combined to join in a magickal wonderful time of year. This year will be particularly magickal as we have the Full Moon. She is called the Cold Moon as Father Winter is on us, but the warmth of her magick with the mystical wonders of this season will flow on us all. There are some people who hurt this time of year. The hearts are heavy, the joy has long burnt out. This is the hope of St Nicholas, of Santa Claus, that in our time of wonder, of love, we remember to reach out to those who may be in pain this year. As we give, our own magick gets stronger, our own faith grows, we are the power. May all the wonders of the magick reach us all.
animal totems: Oxen : Bro Ox carries the burdens. His totem is strong, his voice low, calling the messages of the season of joy. His symbolism is the rememberance that we can help shoulder the burdens of others, which then his medicine tells us the peace will come
lady moon is Waning Gibbous. She remains in Scorpio, while the waning moon removes negativity from our lives. Today is the Christmas day. The Christmas is to remember the birth of the Christians’ Christ child. Many of the traditions came from the celebration of the yule celebrating the triumph of the Oak king over the Holly king to signify the winter solstice.
I am off this am for my grandsons. I will return this evening as early as possible. May the fairies dance around each of us today. Love y Me, Cherokee, frankiecapone, sugar , apache, Apollo t
Today’s stresses are tomorrow’s lessons of life, Today’s problems will be yesterdays strife, The problems of today will show us the way, to change, to grow, to find and know love – deborahmills © 2018
Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into a positive one. Hans Selye
My key to dealing with stress is simple: just stay cool and stay focused. Ashton Eaton
Only in Sconflicts can we see where life needs change. The stresses of today will bring us to a place where we no longer stay in the problems, the issues, so we do something different, something to make changes, so our lives can flow into the path we are meant to follow. We are on a path. We follow our path faithfully, clearly then boom, the bottom seems to fall out. We get stressed, angered with everyone around us, but how we walk the path, treat others we meet, we share the path and move to new people, new ideas and plans. Stress can beat us down or stress can give us the incentive to bring the changes in our lives to dream. Dream on, Dream big, dream
Animal totems: French Hen,: in the 12 days of Christmas the 3 French hens are given as a gift. Sister Hen is a giver of life, and the French hen is a bit feistier than some other hens Fuller, plumper, she has a confident air about her as she runs the chicken coop. Her totem reminds us even in the rough times, be confident in our decisions while her medicine shares with us to be kind to all life
Lady Moon is Waxing Gibbous moving to the Full moon on Sunday the 23rd. leading into the Christmas time. She remains in Gemini the Twins which she entered into yesterday at 9:14 am est, Father Sol, the Sun goes into Capricorn today at 5:23 pm est. We enter into the Yule/ the Winter Solstice today. Be celebrating with holly, mistletoe, and Pinecones to bring the prosperity into our lives
I am going to be off Friday morning due to the Christmas celebration at my mother’s facility. I will be starting early tonight at 4 pm central time to make up the difference, and early on Sunday as well . Christmas eve, I will work my normal hours, while on the Christmas I will be off during the day for celebration with my grandchildren. Each person spirit sends me is important to me, and loved by me every day. May the fairies dance around each of us today. Love ya, me, Cherokee, Frankiecapone, Sugar, Apache, Apollo, T
Ride the ride of life without fear. There will be laughter, there will be a tear. Give ourselves a chance to dream and allow the happiness we know it seems that we fear to receive, even when we believe, let go of the fear, draw the spirit near, and we will see here, love – deborahmills ( c) 2018
Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving. Albert Einstein
When you feel sad, it’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. Everyone has those days when you doubt yourself, and when you feel like everything you do sucks, but then there’s those days when you feel like Superman. It’s just the balance of the world. I just write to feel better. Mac Miller Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony. Thomas Merto
n Money can’t buy happiness, so theologians, psychologists have instructed us for years. Yet, still and all the balance, of mind, body and spirit, can be accomplished by setting a plan. The steps to balance of body, is an intricate part of a highly spiritual plan toward the Law of attraction, the Law of Nature, the Law of positive thinking. Many times in thinking why doesn’t this work? We have not kept balance without realizing we are not balanced. The steps to balance: 1. Decide exactly what it is we want. 2. Write down and structure the plan. 3. Focus on budgets, daily steps, 4. Do what we love. Find things we enjoy and love 5. Keep balanced in diet, finances, spiritual rituals by repeating repeating, daily. Then Dream On,Dream Big, Dream.
Animal totems: chipmunk: Bro Chipmunk often visits me. although I had to change my gardens to accommodate his tendency to eat my pansies, he lives in under my house! He, like cousin Squirrel, tucks nuts, food in his cheek and runs to store it for winter. His totem reminds us to prepare for good things to come, while his medicine shares to keep going toward the goal.
Lady Moon is Waxing Crescent. She enters into Aries at 7:44 pm est. the fire element the passion, the excitement of bringing the dreams alive. Use fire elemnt by lighting candles to honor the gods. Almost all faith systems know the power of fire.
I am here my usual hours today. Tomorrow I will be off the whole day. We are going to see the Nutcracker, after worship with my mom. I will return Monday evening as usual. May the fairies dance around each of us today. Love ya, Me, Cherokee, Frankiecapone, Sugar, Apache, Apollo, T
Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. Bob Marley
Nobody can hurt me without my permission. Mahatma Gandhi
All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt. Charles M. Schulz
I’m gonna love you all day. I’m gonna be there no matter the way, any time you are hurting I will say, if there’s a will, there’s a way . – deborahmills © 2017
No matter what, I’m going to love each person spirit sends my way. I don’t’ expect everyone to like me, but simply respect me. As I try to respect each person, no matter for each one’s actions. Much of the time when people lash out, or say hurtful things, his/her own life is full of darkness, sadness and pain. Cutting someone back may be likOxene releasing the thorn from our thumb but it is temporary relief and we’ve lost a friend, someone who truly cares about us. Our best actions in life, is sometimes silence, take the time to think, reflect, edit, think, re-edit, and think before saying or doing anything. Allow the time for spirit to move. All things are possible when we love each other and ourselves. Dream on. Dream Big. Dream
Animal totems: Oxen: Bro Ox is a beast of burdens. His totem has carried heavy weights long distances, or plowed many fields for long hours for centuries. There has to be a major issues for the Bro Ox to make any sounds, to complain, to be aggressive in sound. His totem reminds us that some are called to carry the burdens to help others lift the weights, while his medicine reminds us to not complain about our lot in life, but try to bring changes through the ways we handled them.
Lady Moon is Waxing Crescent. She remains in Aquarius.. If we are feeling depressed, or in the middle of arguments, and heartaches, use neroli oil in meditation tools and rituals.
I am . May the fairies dance around each of us today. Blessed Be, Me, Cherokee, Frankiecapone, Sugar, Apache, Apollo. T
A a good heart are always a formidable combination. Nelson Mandela
A good heart is better than all the heads in the world. Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton
If you give it good concentration, good energy, good heart and good performance, the song will play you. Levon Helm
If we give it good concentration, good energy, good heart, life will play right for us. In other words, the power of positive attraction works for us. Words are powerful. Once we say them, the power is out there in the universe. We find it hard to stop thoughts, but we can change our words. As we change our words, we can our thoughts, as well as those around us. Once I was watching Steve Harvey. I find him an interesting, funny, highly intelligent man. He has a segment called Ask Steve. In this segment, a woman was complaining of her boyfriend, saying she thought he just played games on her. Steve said, “oh no, he’s not. Men are not that smart.” He went on to say, people really just make mistakes. When hurt comes, or even anger, he/she didn’t think at all. The moves, the actions are not well thought out calculated plans that say oh let me hurt him/her today, but basically just not thinking at all.! Or he/she feels so hurt, or angered, lashing out in pain at anyone, everyone, is the way to relieve the pain. In truth most people are good at heart. Most people want to love, want to have a healthy partnership. Either old bad behavior patterns, or else just impulsive ideas, negative thoughts get in the way, but on a whole, most people have good hearts. In research, statistics say that 1-3% of people in all of America are psychopaths/sociopaths, which is a low number, so we are all good in our decision of a person. We chose to believe in the goodness of people. WE chose to believe that love will win. We chose to believe in our dreams. We chose to believe in our seers, our mentors, rather than the darkness that tried to creep over us. Everyone will not agree with us. Everyone will not like us, but on the whole each person will learn from us.
Animal totems: Thunderbird- Known on the Native American totem pole as one of the most powerful, as his totem can take off his feathers to shapeshift to human form. His totem is the symbol of the inner goodness, strength, power of humans. His medicine reminds us inside of each person, race, creed, gender there beats a kind gentle heart.
Lady Moon is Waxing Crescent with the illumination of 4%. She remains in Virgo while the Mars goes into the Direct today at 2:52 am est. . Need success in business, carry an emerald or wear emerald. Will draw energies of success.
I am here my usual hours today. I love each and every person regardless of race, faith system, creed, gender, that spirit sends to me. The universe, the spirit loves each of us. It is not always easy to follow spirit’s walk, but our dreams will come with the path. May the fairies dance around each of us today. Love ya, Me, Cherokee, frankiecapone, Sugar, Apache, Apollo, T
uccess is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts. Winston Churchill
We don’t develop courage by being happy every day. We develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity. Barbara De Angelis
Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go. T. S. Eliot
Often times people ask, “ was this one written with me in mind?” Most often I have found in my writings that I, in my own life’s struggles, am writing to myself, and find that these pains, hurts, angers, worries touch many others as well in the process. Often times when I face a struggle, a life chaos, I stop, take a deep breath, say to myself, what would I tell so-and-so. What advice as a third party observer would I see in myself, where I didn’t listen to spirit, or took a wrong turn, or perhaps there is a lesson here, but in the end, where am I going next? Most often rushing into more chaos, say we have a money issue, going to high interest quick loans is not the answer, say we have a boyfriend problem, rushing to address him/her on impulse, anger, hurt is not the answer. Stop, look at all sides, take some deep breaths, yes even when our chest feels as if it will explode with the pain. Stop, take some deep breaths, shake the cobwebs out even when our head swirls around and around without stopping for a minute to clear. Stop, listen to the inner spirit a minute so we don’t rush in as fools where angels fear to tread. Stand still for just a minute. We will see when we give it to the Great Spirit, we will find great answers as well as the help. This is all the Divine wants, is for us to know we are not alone. We don’t have to do it all ourselves. The power is in the spirit not the physical. We must listen to the spirit, but still we are not perfect, but the Great spirit is So our dreams come true. Dream on . Dream big. Dream
Animal totems: Canary: Sister Canary is a chipper little thing. Her totem is bouncing around singing a song, with her bright yellow feathers. Her totem reminds us that we should build hope, cheer, even in fearful times. Her medicine shares that even the smallest , the least important is taken care of by the universe.
Lady Moon was the new Moon yesterday. The dark void open moon where all possibilities come in to our dream . She enters Virgo at 7:01 am est. She is Waxing Crescent with the 1% illumination of the New Moon.!! We are in early Yule. Give Candles of red green and gold to celebrate this season of miracles. This is a season of love, peace and renewal. Forgiveness is as much for our soul as for the other person. Forgiving to start the new Year during this miracle times clears the path of junk for open doors to our dreams
I am here my usual hours today. May the fairies dance around each of us today.Love ya, Me Cherokee, Frankiecapone, Sugar, Apache , Apollo, T